Where to go live with the child?
Maybe there are those here who, after the divorce, left for another city / region? Is it real, to find a job, to arrange a child in the garden and how to live with housing?
I now have a very severe depression, I want to leave my husband, to divorce. I will not draw a life here – for a long “sitting” in the decree lost the qualification, self-esteem, etc. want to leave, so that no one knew me, start a new life.
How to decide? Where to begin?
In the direction of Eastern Siberia did not look? There, socio-economic development is slower than even in the Urals. Here it seems to you that as an employee you have passed positions, and there you can be ahead of all. I’m thinking about moving to Baikal. But I have relatives there, it’s easier for me.
and this does not bother anyone. HINT: hang:
What is it like? What is your specialty?
There are smart men who get less than a wife silent in a rag, and when the decree “grew up” in office and zp, changed the apartment and car, began to morally bale and humiliate, that I want to finish everything with suicide: my wife became stupid, and, already “erysipelas” to stop.
I now live only as a child and life passes by: we do not have common themes with him at all, we do not go anywhere together, because it is not interesting for him, but I have nowhere to go, here I have almost no one, from small acquaintances no one in course of the situation in the family, in appearance all ok. Forces can not tolerate his self-affirmation at my expense! Really the forces are running out and with their exacerbated VSD, I’ll just be falling soon.
for me it’s strange, the bigger the city, the more opportunities: ugu:
in small towns it is convenient to go to “their”. There are all familiar, for any case there is “your” person and then you can very well get settled.
what is the problem? the husband you have, the child he contains, and you once you are not at work.
Arrange a child in the kindergarten, herself to work, make new acquaintances and move forward into a new life.
Some kind of porridge in your head.
I do not want to file for alimony, so that he later, in old age, had no claims to the child. To exchange an apartment for two will not work, but it will not be enough for a removable one, it is more than enough, but it will not work any more. The child is left with no one in case of illness or delay at work, the nanny, too, with a removable housing is not enough.
I, in fact, vrazdumyah – it is very difficult to deprive the child of the usual comfort.
Just at rush hour, when tears and grievous strangle, I want to escape from all this, sometimes thoughts come out literally: in the window (((stops only my little puppet.
many of the dekretnits husbands vykabluchivayutsya. You will go to work, reb.drastat – everything will become exhausted.
it’s very touching. Only I did not understand. Husband you bad, but your father, too? Do not want to file for alimony? So it’s not you money, but a child.
It’s like you’re hysterical. And resentment. And the only available way of manipulation and revenge is to take the child away.
fall one. leave a child to your father if you can not do anything yourself and feel bad about how you will drag a child into another city where there is no one: dash:
author, you need to get together and start acting – the child in the kindergarten, herself to work. In six months, think about it again and laugh at yourself yet)))
drink novopassit fool, it’s just postpartum depression, I also had a similar hysterical state, now it’s funny to remember: wink:
I do not want revenge and manipulation, I want to feel myself a man, a woman, which has not happened for a long time. I want to LIVE, and not sit in a jam-packed monster into which he turned me (I turned).
Girls, you’re sorry, that all this has fallen out here, but I do not know what to do. How could I become “this” ?! I understand that I need help from a specialist for a long time.
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